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What the Time Change Taught Me About Connection

I jokingly posted on Facebook about what I thought was a rare, unifying opinion in these divisive times: the collective dread of changing the clocks for Daylight Savings Time.

Turns out, I was wrong.šŸ˜†

While Iā€™m not a fan of losing an hour and having my internal clock and sleep cycle thrown off ā°, some of my friends actually love the time change! As they shared whyā€”more evening light, especially for those in the northā€”I could absolutely see their perspective. It was a great reminder that differ...

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Embracing the Quickening

growth spring Jan 31, 2025

For the past two Thursdays, I have tried to write an email to you about what I was feeling and thinking about the world right now. I couldnā€™t get the words right.

Itā€™s ok. They will come.

But what I do know is that focusing on keeping ourselves cared for and grounded šŸŒæā€”and then extending that care into our communities, both local and onlineā€”is more important than ever. One of the ways I personally stay grounded is through reflection and ritual, which brings me to this special Friday email.

As...

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You Arenā€™t Past Your Prime.

Did you see the Oscars this year? I was in NYC, and after seeing Little Shop of Horrors, my family returned to our hotel room and turned on the TV immediately, hoping to catch the end of the Oscars. 

And that's when we watched Michelle Yeoh's historic win for Best Actress. Of course, seeing someone achieve a dream they worked so hard for always makes me emotional, but this was bigger than that. My eyes filled with tears. 

In 95 years of awards given by the Academy, only two women of color have...

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Take The Shoulds Out Of Spring

self-care spring Apr 24, 2021

You might be hearing the phrase  ā€œspring is in the airā€. 

Are you nodding your head yes with anticipation, or looking the other way? 

How about we make both totally ok, shall we?  

You might be a person who is feeling the sense of hope and renewal and initiation that embodies the energy of spring. It might feel extra this year given how the world shut down just as we entered spring in 2020. Metaphorically some of us have been in a year-long winter and are now feeling the new growth and energy...

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